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    When I get a sexual thought, see a naked girl, or read something sexual, I get this weird feeling in my chest and stomach and then I immediately start to get erect and my heart rate begins to rise. The feeling I can compare it to is like if someone told you to go do something out of your comfort zone. For instance, if you were afraid of public speaking, and a teacher told you to introduce yourself, youd get that feeling in your chest and stomach.

    I want to know why this happens and what I can do to fix it.

  • #2
    Do you exercise?
    Do any yoga?
    How is the diet?

    And, I'm sorry if this is indelicate, but how old are you?
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    • #3
      Do you have a traumatic past?
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      • #4
        It's just anxiety. The more sex you have, the less it will become.

        Relax bro.

        You never slow down, you never grow old!

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        • #5
          Could be an age thing. How old are you?
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          • #6
            Yes, I lift weights 6 days a week, do some form of yoga, and diet is fine. Im in pretty great shape. Im 19. This would happen as well if masturbating with no assistance, then getting asexual thought, then PONR is right around the corner.

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            • #7
              Im 19. This would happen also if masturbating with no assistance, then getting asexual thought, then PONR would be right around the corner.

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              • #8
                Anxiety when watching Porn or reading about sex? What do I have to be anxious about? Id believe you if it was during sex, but it happens when Im all by myself with just a sexual fantasy.

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                • #9
                  Thankfully, no

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                  • #10
                    Don't worry. You'll grow out of it.
                    Start: BPEL 6.75', EG 5.8", BPFL 4.5", FG 4.7", BPFSL 7.0"
                    05/2021: BPEL 7.65, EG 6.0, BPFL 5.8, FG 5.0", BPFSL 8.0"
                    Goal: BPEL 8.0", EG 6.0", BPFL 5.75" FG 5.0", BPFSL 8.5"

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                    • #11
                      So do you think its just over arousal for my age and itll go away with age. Did you experience something similar?

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                      • #12
                        It sounds to me like you are describing a natural aroused sexual response. It probably is heightened due to your age. I'm not clear on how unpleasant these sensations are to you though. Does it feel like anxiety? Or is it really just the physiological effects on your heart rate and respiration? That's possibly just a normal sexual response thing. I'm more than twice your age. I still get it. But the only time I remember having anything like premature ejaculations was when sex was very new to me.

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                        • #13
                          It’s normal. You can actively work on it by doing deep breathing and not freaking out. Put yourself in those situations a little bit everyday until it becomes familiar to you. Eventually, you’ll develop the confidence and skill to overcome it.
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                          • #14
                            I vote trauma

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