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    Hey, I have started PE a little over a month now and have also quit watching porn. I want to get into edging both for gains and to better control my load. However, I am finding it extremely difficult to masturbate without a visual stimuli (porn). I tried there now and although I could do it, I had pretty bad EQ and never really felt totally in the zone. I suppose this thread is more for any pointers, advice, personal experience with this matter. Will my EQ while masturbating get better over time? What ways did you counteract the bad EQ? I never used to have this problem when masturbating in my teens or early 20s. However, I have relied upon some form of visual stimuli throughout my 20s, I am now 30. The past month I have been going without masturbating because I see my girlfriend at the weekend so just bottle it up until then, so to speak. However, I have practiced edging 5 years ago and found it really helpful and would like to get into it again. Cheers for any help.
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  • #2
    It will get better over time as you recover your imagination powa.
    Stop blowing the fluids for a while, it will help you a lot.
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    • #3
      Cheers for the reply. That is good to know, I hope so. I only blow the fluids at the weekend
      with my girlfriend so that is no problem. Hopefully I can start edging properly during the week.
      It is terrible when you can't rely on your own imagination to get you turned on haha. So the
      only thing I can really do is wait you reckon?

      Originally posted by popol5169 View Post
      It will get better over time as you recover your imagination powa.
      Stop blowing the fluids for a while, it will help you a lot.
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      • #4
        You could stop touching it altogether for a while (only using it with you girlfriend), and then resume edging.

        Just my two cents, read all the thread on porn in the forum and you will see what damage it can do and how to treat it.
        https://www.pegym.com/forums/penis-e...a-jelqing.html

        Quality jelqs / Moving squeezes

        Off to the real world.

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        • #5
          Originally posted by kickinthemebs View Post
          It is terrible when you can't rely on your own imagination to get you turned on haha. So the
          only thing I can really do is wait you reckon?
          That should only be the case initially- especially if you're deconditioning yourself from porn. Once you learn to really exercise that power you'll be able to have much more control over your penis.

          Remember too- if you're very sexually active, offset some of your scheduled stamina training to reflect that. You can always practice your stamina techniques while you're having a sexual encounter, and the benefit will be mutual to your partner.
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          • #6
            Cool, thanks for the advice! Will practice that and hopefully I can see some improvements. My girlfriend actually wanted to watch porn with me today so we did but I was way more interested in wanting to fuck her than watch the porn, so I did haha.

            Originally posted by Big Al View Post
            That should only be the case initially- especially if you're deconditioning yourself from porn. Once you learn to really exercise that power you'll be able to have much more control over your penis.

            Remember too- if you're very sexually active, offset some of your scheduled stamina training to reflect that. You can always practice your stamina techniques while you're having a sexual encounter, and the benefit will be mutual to your partner.
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            • #7
              That's good.

              What seemed to work well for me was to just give up everything that has to do with sex; no porn, no masturbating, no ejaculating, no fantasies, etc. And if i see a beautiful girl, i even look away and take my mind off her. and after doing that for a while, you should have no problem getting good erections.

              I like to only ejaculate during sex, and go at least a day or two without any stimulation what so ever.
              I think it's awesome, because if I do this for long enough, when I finally go to have sex, it feels so amazing, like I haven't had any for so long and like the girl I'm with looks so beautiful and I get so horny.
              I recommend anyone do this just for that reason.
              I think less is definitely better in this situation. (Sex)

              I think porn will ruin your mind. It's better without it.

              Seriously though. Try it out.
              Deprive yourself of sexual things for a while and then go have some and you will appreciate it more.

              Also, after getting good erections back and you can masturbate with just thoughts, then edge edge edge. This also seems to increase my sexual desire when it's finally time.
              start: aug 1 2013
              bpel: 6.9..7.1..7.2..8.5
              Nbpel: 6..6.2..6.4..8
              Mseg: 5..5..6.5
              Flaccid: 4..4.
              .6


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              • #8
                Cool, thanks dude, that is exactly what I have been doing for the past month and it has been working really well for me. Awesome weekend sex sessions
                I suppose I was just being a bit hard on myself, I think the chance of edging will come in time. Haha two puns there in one sentence.
                So, I should be able to edge no problem in another few weeks or so, or will it takes months to detox from the influence of porn and wanking-ejaculation do you think? I know everyone is different, but how long would it have taken you if you remember?
                Thanks for the advice.

                Originally posted by BoaConstrictor View Post
                That's good.

                What seemed to work well for me was to just give up everything that has to do with sex; no porn, no masturbating, no ejaculating, no fantasies, etc. And if i see a beautiful girl, i even look away and take my mind off her. and after doing that for a while, you should have no problem getting good erections.

                I like to only ejaculate during sex, and go at least a day or two without any stimulation what so ever.
                I think it's awesome, because if I do this for long enough, when I finally go to have sex, it feels so amazing, like I haven't had any for so long and like the girl I'm with looks so beautiful and I get so horny.
                I recommend anyone do this just for that reason.
                I think less is definitely better in this situation. (Sex)

                I think porn will ruin your mind. It's better without it.

                Seriously though. Try it out.
                Deprive yourself of sexual things for a while and then go have some and you will appreciate it more.

                Also, after getting good erections back and you can masturbate with just thoughts, then edge edge edge. This also seems to increase my sexual desire when it's finally time.
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                • #9
                  Originally posted by kickinthemebs View Post
                  Cool, thanks dude, that is exactly what I have been doing for the past month and it has been working really well for me. Awesome weekend sex sessions
                  I suppose I was just being a bit hard on myself, I think the chance of edging will come in time. Haha two puns there in one sentence.
                  So, I should be able to edge no problem in another few weeks or so, or will it takes months to detox from the influence of porn and wanking-ejaculation do you think? I know everyone is different, but how long would it have taken you if you remember?
                  Thanks for the advice.
                  Well, I'd say it depends on how long and how often you've been on porn.
                  I think probably between a couple weeks and a couple months.. How long and how often would you say you were on it?
                  start: aug 1 2013
                  bpel: 6.9..7.1..7.2..8.5
                  Nbpel: 6..6.2..6.4..8
                  Mseg: 5..5..6.5
                  Flaccid: 4..4.
                  .6


                  his mother was a mudder..

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                  • #10
                    Well I am 30 now, and I suppose I would have watched porn regularly from early and mid 20s. Watch it at least once a week but at some stages watched it once a day. But the past few years I would have became dependent upon it for maturbation, whereas in my early 20s and mid 20s I would have been able to wank using imagination alone. So hopefully I am not too badly affected by it. Maybe another few weeks because I am already a month off it. You think?

                    Originally posted by BoaConstrictor View Post
                    Well, I'd say it depends on how long and how often you've been on porn.
                    I think probably between a couple weeks and a couple months.. How long and how often would you say you were on it?
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                    • #11
                      Originally posted by kickinthemebs View Post
                      Well I am 30 now, and I suppose I would have watched porn regularly from early and mid 20s. Watch it at least once a week but at some stages watched it once a day. But the past few years I would have became dependent upon it for maturbation, whereas in my early 20s and mid 20s I would have been able to wank using imagination alone. So hopefully I am not too badly affected by it. Maybe another few weeks because I am already a month off it. You think?
                      Yeah I think that should be fine. I think the best way would be to go as long as you can without any sexual stimulation period. Like a detox.
                      start: aug 1 2013
                      bpel: 6.9..7.1..7.2..8.5
                      Nbpel: 6..6.2..6.4..8
                      Mseg: 5..5..6.5
                      Flaccid: 4..4.
                      .6


                      his mother was a mudder..

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