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  • Stealthman
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    Originally posted by derocker View Post
    The reason why I start this thread, is because I am getting obsessed with PE. The fact that I fail at PE, is affecting my life extremely much. I am feeling like a huge failure in life and I am even suicidal. I am telling you guys this because I really need an honest answer to this question (and because I am feeling extremely bad).

    I really want to achieve my goal of a bigger penis, but I also can't take another disappointment.
    imo it is best to step back, relax, regroup and then think if you want to carry on with PE'ing or not.

    A "smaller" penis is not the end of the world. Guys get by fine with much greater hardships... best to get some perspective ie. regroup.

    Such problems are all in your mind anyway so it is good not to lose sight of this and become so focused on the physical "flaws" you choose to create.

    Step outside and go for a walk, sit down somewhere in nature and feel the fullness of life.

    You lack nothing bro!

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  • joeshmo209
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    try pumping. It gives you at least temporary gains for about 8 hours or so. When used with full on erection, the gains you experience for a few minutes after pumping are substantial and are at least cool to watch. If you want to have the feeling of progress, pumping will definitely do that for you and with a combination of jelqing you should see at least some permanent gains. I have the penomet and i follow the jelqing/pumping routine and i have been getting favorable results.

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  • Vulture
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    mike, is blisters the hard rough edge of the glans just above the circumcision scar? If so I think I'm getting blisters too...My head edge is so rough and sensitive...After hanging session my glans hurt like a bitch t00

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  • Xavier II
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    agreed with everyone else here. take a break. relax and start over again.

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  • Xavier II
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    that makes two of us. when I'm at the gym, i wear sweat pants, my flaccid hang is noticed by a few girls. even under the sweats.. it's thicker, longer. a few months ago, THAT wasn't even visible at all.

    I'm 5'6" tall. my height is dwarfed by lots of dudes. My cock is a diff story, though. (7.2) I started at 5.8.

    extending for as much hours as a man could is the recipe for length. along with manual stretching & pumping.

    soon enough i will incorporate hanging. wahaaha

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  • mike mankin
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    I had the surgery some 14 yrs ago, it was a completely worthless procedure as far length goes..im 100 percent sure the lig reattached..i did no extending or hanging as a follow up which is a must imo....your 6 sets may not of been enough you should of used an extender or an ads when not hanging..from my hard gainer experience you must be stretching hanging extending for 5 to 10 hours aday.your gonzo way of hanging is the way to do it. im sure you created micro tears but did not follow up with long low tension..your micro tears healed pretty much in the same place...I would probably make extending your focus instead of hanging I believe hanging is slightly over rated. I have hung 20 pounds btc. it just got to painful im currently using a hybrid routine because I got a blister below penis head ..which was strange since I have extended 2100 hrs with not a problem.anyway imo you need to be stretching all day everyday, 6 sets is only 2 hours that was your mistake.....mankin now standing at 7 3/8 nbpel x 6 1/16 msg im getting hung, no fricken doubt I will be 7.5 plus by holloween..im getting in a zone with this pe, originally 5 7/8 - 6 nbpel x 5 3/4 ? there abouts when I started..man wearing jeans is getting uncomfortable at work my package is big/hung ,people are noticing

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  • rnizza
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    Here is what i would do:

    1. Check out this routine: Timbers chempe, newbie, hanging, pumping, dmso/paba routines

    2. Try the lg hanger or grip system hanger as your hanger. They will allow you to get more hanging time in.
    3. Use an ads. The grip system website has a good all day hanger that you can use to keep your penis elongated throughout the day and will not interfere with work etc.
    4. Many members here wont agree with this, but i think you should use dsmo/paba combination on your penis to soften the collagen within your penis.
    5. If that fails maybe you should start chem pe. Use trimix injections everyday to expand your penis. This is a very costly option, but it is something you may have to do.
    6. As a super extreme last option you can get surgery to partially cut the suspensory ligament in your penis and make it easier to bring your inner penis out.

    Dont give up brother! Keep that head up! Message me if you want me to elaborate to the best of my knowledge any of the advice that i posted here.

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  • forthelolz
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    For me, I use to pump at high pressures. It looked huge after, to me at least, but from my experience, most is not better for PE. Even though i would see increases of 1 in. in length and girth after my sessions, 30 min after I would notice some turtling. If my buddy enjoyed it, he wouldn't be hiding. LOLz. jp, but seriously. hanging at 27 lbs? sounds a bit intense. I don't think it's about how much you can do, but being consistent in what you do. Let your buddy know the extent it can reach without it being scared of getting there. know what i mean? take it easy and remember less is more for PE. I get so damn anxious to do more, but self control is another big factor. good luck.

    LoLz.

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  • amc
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    Jelging for 15min isnt enough. But the hanging part is strange... Perhaps you over did it(scared it). Buy a good book about PE or try a coach.

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  • MrsLooking4more
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    Sometimes the break kicks the growth, it happened to the Mr and after that he always did JP90 for the 90 days and the took a week off and he reached all his goals!

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  • donjelqer76
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    I agree with these guys, take a break - and when you come back switch things up and try something different. We'll be here waiting to help you get a fresh start when you get back

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  • Swegei
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    I agree with everyone saying you need a break but why not give girth a try? I may have overlooked it but I don't remember you mentioning anything about doing said exercises.

    I feel personally, and I could be very wrong, that girth is easier to gain. This makes sense on a physiological level as the job of the penis is to expand (and piss). All you are doing is trapping more blood to expand your ability to expand. Ligaments, in regards to gaining length, seem to me to be a little more of an uncertainty and your ligaments appear very strong.

    To each their own but you need a break anyways. Have fun in life as it is too short to be hung up stuff such as PE. Look at this as a fun hobby and not life or death. Good luck with your endeavors.

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  • Jakebfs
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    Once you've taken a break, try a girth routine? Start light and only slowly build it up no matter how easy you might think it is. Even if you don't want girth- all of your efforts so far have been for length, getting even 0.1" extra girth will remove those irrational thoughts of failure.

    Everyone can give you the PE advice. What I'm seeing is 'It makes me feel like a failure, I'm suicidal'. This is a completely irrational fear of failure, although such thoughts are pretty common. When you think stuff like that just focus on all the good things in your life- all of the aspects where your penis has absolutely nothing to do with anything, all your happy memories. Because thinking you're a failure because PE hasn't worked so far is irrational- you need to question the logic behind those thoughts. Stop and say hey, is it really a failure? I mean come on its just a penis, I can be healthy, work out the rest of my body, study and read to get smarter, talk to people and be social and I can have a great successful life without any PE.

    That's roughly RET- rational emotive therapy. Its what some psychologists or counsellors would make you do if you went to see one. Which I have to advise if you're feeling suicidal. I have websites and numbers you could call free of charge, or could direct you to organisations you could do see who can help. Because you say one more disappointment is one more you can't handle, and that tells me maybe your focus on PE is covering up for something else you're not happy with in your life, and there are people you can see who can help. You're feeling bad and they can make you feel better, and who doesn't want to feel better.

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  • Vulture
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    Take 3 month or more break. See if you become deconditioned again or not. Get a hanger such as LG that you can wear for as long as you want without taking off for at least an hour and give pumping a try. Pumping gains may not be permanent but it will still make you feel better...
    Bro I know what you are feeling. I've been at PE for about nine months on and off, and I haven't seen a bit of gains...so apart from all this success stories and simple traction logic there is nothing supporting PE is real...

    What angle did you hang at? I'm assuming your LOT is 6? Give OTS a try. But first take a break..

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  • MrBigDick
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    Originally posted by derocker View Post
    As some of you may already know, I have a history of 2 years of PE'ing.

    Here is what I did:

    - Some jelqing for 3 months, 15 minutes every day (not very dedicated)
    - After those 3 months I bought a hanger and got very, very dedicated. I hung for a year and 3 months.
    - After that I extended for 6 months.

    I had no gains from all this. None at all. Now, I DON'T want to discuss hanging. I am 100% certain that I did everything I could for hanging, and it simply didn't work. Period. I hung 27 pounds for 6 sets a day at the end, and still I made no gains. I know hanging is considered to be the best method to gain, which is why I bought a hanger is the first place. Still, it didn't work for me.

    The reason why I start this thread, is because I am getting obsessed with PE. The fact that I fail at PE, is affecting my life extremely much. I am feeling like a huge failure in life and I am even suicidal. I am telling you guys this because I really need an honest answer to this question (and because I am feeling extremely bad).

    This is the question: You guys know that I tried hanging, which is considered the best form of PE, for more than a year. It gave me no gains. The same goes for extending, though for a shorter time. If these two forms of PE failed for me, is there any way at all that manual PE can help? Or is it hopeless? I really need an honest answer. I am prepared to be extremely dedicated one more time, but I also know that I can't take another disappointment, I really don't want to fail again. If you guys think that manual PE won't work if hanging and extending failed, I really want to hear it. I really want to achieve my goal of a bigger penis, but I also can't take another disappointment.
    Manual PE isn't a waste. That's all I've ever done for the past 9 years and I've done well.

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