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  • yebber
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    Originally posted by poqw View Post
    I visited teraphist twice and we came up to the conclusion that i am right and my issue is that i dont want to accept what i am because of the way people treat me. I dont know what to do now.
    I'm not a therapist but this is for sure a mental thing. I know because I've been where you are now. As you can see, I've been a member for a long time, and I came mainly to address my mental issues. If you believe that there's something wrong with you, then of course there isn't. I gonna tell you the honest obvious truth that you can't see (and I couldn't see back then): You perception of your penis and how you think people think about it is mainly your own. You can change that. It might take time but you can change it. And let me tell you:

    Growing more meat won't help you with that! You need a better mindset first. I haven't gaining a single thing since I became a member because I haven't been consistant and I haven't had the priority/interest to do it, but my own perception has changed fundamentally.

    Brother, you have to be rational about it. I know that sounds hard, but why would anyone value you based on your penis, large or small? Its a peace of meat which has a biological purpose of reproduction (having children). The whole size thing has come from weird society developments, especially with the arrival of porn + internet. That really shouldn't get in your head. Sure, its cool to grow your size, and it will trigger dopamine that you have accomplished your task of growing your penis (like it triggers dopamine when you workout, study etc). But thats it man.

    You can write to me whenever you want, I cant' help you with a routine. There are many other more qualified people here to help you with that. But if you wanna talk to someone, I'll do my best. And as you can see above you, I'm not the only one who will. Chin up!

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  • florrin87
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    a common practice in my country with a small dick is to insert 1 or two plastic balls under the skin of ur dick, i have a friend who did it and that changed his whole sex life, he is and we grew up together and he was allways complainign probably like u do that he has 11cm and his delf esteem went negative, after that he started feeling more like a man and people noticed that. now he has a wife and she is very happy with him. he did it a home on his own but u can do it with someone trained to this kinda shit like a doctor, im 17cm and considering to do it honestly.

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  • poqw
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    Originally posted by Ultimate Burrito View Post
    After reading your last post, you may need to start with mental health before you work on anything else. Are there psychiatrists in your area. I don't think a bigger penis is going to fix all your issues.
    I visited teraphist twice and we came up to the conclusion that i am right and my issue is that i dont want to accept what i am because of the way people treat me. I dont know what to do now.

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  • jp87
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    Originally posted by Hailtotheburrito View Post
    I think the PO Box is an excellent idea. I use the quick extender pro. Been doing it for 8 months. I gained 1.25 inches so far. 4 hrs a day. 3 days on 1 day off. Took a few days off here and there for vacations. Works like a charm and I sport a nice bulge. I am not used to being a show’er so I am constantly “adjusting” myself lol. I normally wear a medium size boxers and had to buy large sports style to have more room. Another 6-8 months and I should be pretty close to what most women would consider a pretty large dick. Takes time man. Cells don’t grow like this over night. I have a wife and kids so if I can do it so can you.
    Holy shit. How did you go from 5.75 to 7 so quickly?

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  • Ellford
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    Easy as Pi:

    Do a search here for a Captn's Wrench.

    By materials (under $20 Canadian and like $10USD)

    Make device (I'm the most un-handy guy and I was able to do it)

    Buy some weights and start hanging (use weights for the rest of your body too)

    Gain confidence from all the above

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  • justanormaldick
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    Originally posted by Newuser12 View Post
    Im confused you said you made gains through stretching?
    I'm sorry, I wrote gains, was to be guys, edited there.

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  • Newuser12
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    Originally posted by justanormaldick View Post
    I don't, I'm doing just a girth routine
    Im confused you said you made gains through stretching?

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  • Big Al
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    How long has it taken you to work up to 30 minutes of jelqing? Have you seen any progress at all?

    It's important to do what you can to be objective during your training -as negative emotions can wreak havoc on EQ.
    Last edited by Big Al; 08-14-2019, 02:17 PM. Reason: Spelling

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  • aBone2pick
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    This is a sad post. I don't buy that there are countries where women give that much of a damn about a guy's size. People checking out your bulge on the street? Unbelievably doubtful. Please seek a therapist, bro. You are going to be dealing with some form insecurity your whole life, because it's your perception that's screwed up, not your genitals.

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  • Pegasus
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    You need to address anxiety that is your biggest issue.

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  • Ultimate Burrito
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    After reading your last post, you may need to start with mental health before you work on anything else. Are there psychiatrists in your area. I don't think a bigger penis is going to fix all your issues.

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  • poqw
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    Originally posted by Party View Post
    Wow. Really? Do you think people walk around all day checking out bulges? Gals and guys alike? Dude relax. The only guy/gal checking out my bulge is me. And I’d expect you are the only one checking out yours no matter how big you get.
    ‘Here’s an idea. But a big sausage in your pants and see if anyone notices. Let me know.
    That is the reality ... unfortunately ... at least in my country . In sunny days every (almost) women is checking , less during the winter season so less stress and anxiety. Or at least thats the situation with me. I am 23, tall, good body structure and over all looks i can confidently say i am handsome BUT everyone expects big bulge... AND I haven't been going out whole summer i go out in the evenings only to buy myself packs of ciggs for the next day. I want to find a job in my field but... small dick=> lack of confidence-> and what i call mental paralysis it is when am distracted of my thoughts if someone is looking at me pretty much all the time right now.

    Even when i was younger that was my life but then i had Gyno (i went under the knife) now the size is the thing i have to fix to start and live a normal or even good life 7,5-8 inch npb then i will probably stop. PE is my only hope to start living but so far ... you know.

    Always with my car to avoid potential looks and comments if i meet anyone on the street (from the car to the non stop). .... there are 3 NON STOP shops in 5-10 mins away walking... The only time when it is less noticeable is with new jeans they create kind of a bulge. But i have to wait till its kind of cloudy to go to the mall.
    It is no joke man... it's not life, but prison of some sort...

    Sorry for the long read but i had to tell it to someone ,i can't tell to anyone about this.

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  • justanormaldick
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    Originally posted by Newuser12 View Post
    How many stretches do you do and for how long?
    I don't, I'm doing just a girth routine

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  • Newuser12
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    Originally posted by justanormaldick View Post
    That's why I'm here.

    To be honest my major concern is girth. But I've seen many gains gain lenght just throught manual stretching, I think it's better than jelq.
    How many stretches do you do and for how long?

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  • justanormaldick
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    Originally posted by Newuser12 View Post

    I just want to be normal size
    Help
    That's why I'm here.

    To be honest my major concern is girth. But I've seen many guys gain lenght just throught manual stretching, I think it's better than jelq.
    Last edited by justanormaldick; 08-14-2019, 08:54 PM.

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