Announcement

Collapse
No announcement yet.

New starter, as well as contradiction between PE and NoFap (Some advice please)

Collapse
X
 
  • Filter
  • Time
  • Show
Clear All
new posts

  • New starter, as well as contradiction between PE and NoFap (Some advice please)

    Hello there,

    I have attempted PE within the past few years, but I never truely stuck to it. I have recently had a massive motivation surge and I wanted to be able to do it. I live alone now so I'm able to do PE in completely privacy. However I also being doing NoFap with great success. I started NoFap because my confidence and self esstem was at rock bottom, and I was told doing NoFap would improve it. While doing NoFap I can safely say that it has worked, I can't explain it but there is a certain aura about me now and people have pointed it out.

    However I still wanted to do PE. I don't really have a small penis, but nor a big one. I'm 25 and I've had sex with two people in my life. I've never spoken to either of them about sex, but my first girlfriend always use to say "Ow" like she was in pain, I questioned her if she was ok and she said she was. She did it a fair amount to be honest. I had sex with a girl recently and the same thing happened. This time the girl said "I'm going to have to stop, I'm sore"

    I took this as a compliment ahaha, but either way my penis is 6" Length and 4.40" Girth Erect. I just want to be the best man possible. I want to be able to enter a women and have there eyes roll back into their head when I do it. It brings me great pleasure, to pleasure a women.

    There is another issue, because of my long time porn usage I cum very early. While having sex with that girl recently, I cum within about 5-10 minutes and had to pull out to try stop myself, I started fingering her to mask the fact I had to pull out for a few seconds, however I cum a little after I pulled out, she didn't notice, but then when we got back to it I couldn't cum again and I felt as if I was wasting my time from that point. I know I said I like to please women, but I just didn't have to drive for it at that point.

    Thats another reason I started NoFap, but equally I heard the benefits of edging. I attempted edging before, but I always ended up wanting to finish myself off, I could never not just stop. Same to jelqing, after a jelqing session I would just finish myself off.

    I would like to be able to do PE and NoFap together, but I wanted some advice is anyone has anything to offer. I posted on the NoFap forums about this, but they were "less helpful" as they just shunned PE and jelqing as a myth and we all know damn well it isn't

    Anyway, please offer your thoughts and advice.

    Thank you very much
    Last edited by Djwhitfield; 05-25-2017, 10:07 AM.

  • #2
    Hey DJ!

    Welcome to the Gym.

    It would be a good idea to click on the Start Here button at the top left of the page. Lots of good information on what the Gym is all about, including best practices and safety tips.

    It is always recommended to start with a beginners routine and continue with it for 90 days or until you stop gaining. Start slowly and build up to the full routine over a few weeks.

    Jelq with an erection level between 40 and 70%. Do not grip too tight, just enough to feel blood moving up the shaft. When stretching, grab your shaft about one inch below the glans and do not pull too hard, just enough to to feel a slight stretch. Let your PIs be your guide as to how hard to pursue your routine.

    Dont forget to take good starting measurements and photos so you have a solid base to compare your gains to.

    PE safely and good luck with your endeavors.
    Valued Member of 11+ years at the PEGym

    12/'09 (start) NBP EL - 4.5, EG - 4.4
    12/11 NBPEL - 5.1, MSEG - 5
    01/13 NBPEL - 5.35, MSEG - 5.1
    01/14 NBPEL - 5.35, MSEG - 5.25
    01/16 NBPEL - 5.4, MSEG - 5.5
    Fat Pad = 1+/-

    Real cars have two seats. Everything else is a bus.

    Comment


    • #3
      My opinion [in an article]: Increased Testosterone, NoFap and more
      Want One FREE Month of Coaching? PM or email me for details- or CLICK HERE

      The MeCoach Male Enhancement Coaching Service- For All of Your Male Enhancement Needs

      25 years of experience in male enhancement now compiled into a 192 page instantly downloadable ebook -CLAIM YOURS HERE NOW for $7 (instead of $37)

      Comment


      • #4
        I know this is an old thread but im curious about the same thing....dj if you stuck to it id like to know about your expierence with it.
        New attempt!
        1/17: start 7.25 bpel 4.5 eg


        Will be satisfied when I hit 8bpel x 5meg (but hopefully more than that)

        "He who has a why, can endure almost any how"

        Comment


        • #5
          Not a fan of npfap

          Comment


          • #6
            nofap is a lie if anything, whileover-masturbating causes damage to the dick, remember that if you don't use it, you lose it, and if you do PE exercises, you are already using it, as jelq and edging are somehow fapping motions... in other words, find the right ballance

            Comment


            • #7
              DJ. There is no such thing as PIV with your woman that is a waste of time just cause your can't cum. Take it from me, I leave the bedroom frustrated many time but satisfied she didn't. K?
              A prayer, is kinda the same as a "Like". If there are enough likes, God will take notice. So "Like" away please. My daughter needs your prayers. Thank You.

              Comment


              • #8
                Originally posted by Dylan8433 View Post
                I know this is an old thread but im curious about the same thing....dj if you stuck to it id like to know about your expierence with it.
                Hiya mate,

                I have "somewhat" stuck to it. I don't want to give you any excuses, but as of right now my life isn't organzied enough to but juggling so much self development. But anyway, I will tell you my experience with everything.

                I'm not a preacher of NoFap, HOWEVER as much as people disagree it has had a massive effect on me personally. I think it works for some people and others not so much. But definately for me, its hard to stick to though. For example once you start day 1 and 2 are usually the hardest, but after about 6 days in there is a sudden boost in energy and confidence. It is rather odd, but I have tested this on serveral occations now and the same rings true. The furthers I got was about 3 weeks but I just had to release.

                My thought upon sex and women changed as well as my interactions with both men and women. It was like I was giving off a posative aura. Sounds stupid I know but its true. I noticed myself getting more looks from both men and women of any sexuality.

                That being said as soon as I relapsed back into masterbating twice a day it all fades. Even if I maintain a posative attitude the reactions via others are drasticlly different.

                As for Bathmate, had alot of success with it for the time I was using it and I will still continue to use it, but I need to get more of a routine going with it. After using the Bathmate and seeing the size increase after getting out the bath is just a huge confidence boost. The size is usually about 0.5 inch in length and 1 inch in girth. Its a massive change within such a short time from getting in the bath to getting out. I haven't had sex with anyone while its like this. But honestly feel like a god after getting out the bath. Anyway, it usually lasts for about 2 or 3 days in my experience before returning to normal again. I have noticed very slight perm gains from it, however bare in mind I was only using it for a month or so in a routine. I think massive perm gains could be gotten if used consistantly and in a routine.

                As for Jelqing, I use to do this when do Bathmate, but I only did it a week or so, I did feel some improvement, but Bathmate was doing the most of it for me.

                I will have to give you some more thoughts when I finally experince with everything. I'm to attempt this all again pretty soon. Life has just been abit shitty recently so things have had to take a backseat. But I won't be giving up.

                Comment


                • #9
                  Originally posted by Raven89 View Post
                  nofap is a lie if anything, whileover-masturbating causes damage to the dick, remember that if you don't use it, you lose it, and if you do PE exercises, you are already using it, as jelq and edging are somehow fapping motions... in other words, find the right ballance
                  Each to their own isn't it really. For me personally it seems to work but for others they don't seem to get along with it. Not gonna judge either way.

                  Comment


                  • #10
                    I really think its all about Porn - what happens with nofap - is that by stopping all masturbation and porn for at least 90 days (their standard reboot) you wean off porn and also, ideally, disconnect porn from masturbation. So i think there is value there but i think you can reintroduce masturbation (or edging) if it is free of visual or mental imagery. I really like edging and the reverse kegel practices so I am trying to find a balance with MB/edging. But nofap was helpful. I do worry about my dopamine addiction resurfacing from edging and stopping and also edging-ejaculate.
                    Current BPEL - 7.5
                    Current BPFSL - 7.75
                    Current MEG - 5.75
                    Would like 8 by 6

                    Comment


                    • #11
                      NoFap done top excess may cause a detraining effect. In limited amount though it can serve a useful purpose- especially if one is addicted to porn and/or used tio ejaculating to excess.

                      Not often discuss here are the other, non-training purposes for NoFap.
                      Want One FREE Month of Coaching? PM or email me for details- or CLICK HERE

                      The MeCoach Male Enhancement Coaching Service- For All of Your Male Enhancement Needs

                      25 years of experience in male enhancement now compiled into a 192 page instantly downloadable ebook -CLAIM YOURS HERE NOW for $7 (instead of $37)

                      Comment

                      Working...
                      X