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    I've come to really enjoy foreplay but sex is another thing. I don't feel aroused when I penetrate. Condom or no condom. I thought that I had ED or low EQ but I've come to think my penis is quite healthy and fairly strong. It's just that I'm missing something during sex. Lately, I thought I was overkegeling or stressing it so I've learned to be more relaxed and not kegel so much while masturbating or having sex. Reverse kegels also helped.
    Yesterday, when I had sex at missionary position, penis shrunk after a while as usual since there's not arousal. But, when she came on top and jumped on it, I felt it this time and I cummed after a few seconds. Then I cummed two times more with handjobs, total of 3 times.

    Long story short, I have a standard to high sex drive (22 years old) and as I've come to conclude kegel or no kegel doesn't matter so much during intercourse. It's just that I have to find a way to feel my penis during a vagina. I love handjobs, blowjobs and feel them on every inch of my penis. I want the same when I'm inside a pussy! I'm thinking of edging really slow and with a soft grip or even buying a FleshLight.
    What's your take on this?

  • #2
    I feel a lot less stimulus during missionary also, but if she's on top or bent over, it's like a totally different vagina.

    Try cutting back on the hand jobs and blow jobs, and have more PIV. It may help.

    You never slow down, you never grow old!

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    • #3
      Sounds like you've desensitized your penis a bit. A hand grips your penis much more than a vagina can, so practice edging or masturbating using lube & a much lighter grip. It may take several months to retrain and sensitize your penis to become fully stimulated using a softer grip. A fleshlight would also be good therapy, IMO.

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      • #4
        Ditto, sex for me is much much less stimulating than blowjobs. In my case it is partly an unhealthy penis that does not allow sufficient bloodflow during sex and also part mental. I find that the initiation of sex cause me to automatically tighten up my pelvic floor down there causing tension and a lesser sensation. I am sure you have experienced a sexual encounter that you would rate above any blowjob.

        Jock gives give advice, maybe train your mind to prefer sex over everything else and the sensations will follow

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        • #5
          As I thought then, I should train myself to masturbate cleverly and love sex.Truth is the thought of sex always excited me, it's just that it feels weird inside a vagina. Last intercourse taught me that there are positions that have much more stimulus like you said so there's always room for trying and improvising. Kinda excited there are endless possibilities and alternatives!

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          • #6
            I'm actually going through the same thing. Seems the GF and I conditioned myself for either or, instead of sex.

            Too. Many. Fawking. Blow. Jobs. Not. Enough. Sex.

            You never slow down, you never grow old!

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            • #7
              Try and get your partner to do some pf squeezes during sex as well I find that is always a winner!!
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              • #8
                Originally posted by Jay1983 View Post
                I'm actually going through the same thing. Seems the GF and I conditioned myself for either or, instead of sex.

                Too. Many. Fawking. Blow. Jobs. Not. Enough. Sex.
                i wish I had your problem Not sure why I bothered taking a Viagra, All BOB mostly. Very disappointed I came in her.
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                • #9
                  Originally posted by Eazygeezer View Post
                  Try and get your partner to do some pf squeezes during sex as well I find that is always a winner!!
                  A female who kegels regularly will provide a guy much greater stimulation than those who don't. Just like PE for guys, women need to "practice" keeping their vaginas in tip-top shape for the mutual enjoyment of sex, IMO!

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                  • #10
                    I just can't be asking each and every time I'm having sex with a girl to squeeze her vagina or explain how to kegel! I'm gonna try this though with the girl I'm right now, seems interesting. Sensitizing a penis described above seems like a more long-term solution!

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                    • #11
                      I've never been able to ejaculate from just a blow job, not unless I focus very hard and kegel like I'm trying to flip a bus. Even when I couldn't last 5 minutes in penetration. I love BJs, but to me they just seem like a good way to start sex. This changes if there is a lot of hand stroking involved, but the hands are solely responsible for getting me close to climax. Mouth just will not do it.
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                      • #12
                        Originally posted by Darknodar View Post
                        I just can't be asking each and every time I'm having sex with a girl to squeeze her vagina or explain how to kegel! I'm gonna try this though with the girl I'm right now, seems interesting. Sensitizing a penis described above seems like a more long-term solution!
                        Just tell her to do the same thing when she's trying to cut off urination.
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                        • #13
                          Originally posted by DarkMedic View Post
                          I've never been able to ejaculate from just a blow job, not unless I focus very hard and kegel like I'm trying to flip a bus. Even when I couldn't last 5 minutes in penetration. I love BJs, but to me they just seem like a good way to start sex. This changes if there is a lot of hand stroking involved, but the hands are solely responsible for getting me close to climax. Mouth just will not do it.
                          Yeah, I can't cum either with blowjob. But I can feel it on my penis and come to really love it! Sex on the other hand... I will either feel it and cum in seconds or don't feel it at all. And the latter happens 95% of the time


                          Originally posted by Party View Post
                          Just tell her to do the same thing when she's trying to cut off urination.
                          I will but it doesn't feel right to rely on this every time I should focus on liking intercourse as it is.

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                          • #14
                            Well, I think u r over thinking this, just have fun. Sometimes in missionary, if I'm having an issue getting there. While inside I'll have her put her legs together, good for me, great for her.
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                            • #15
                              Sounds like you're desensitized and/or might have DE. Just like the above stated practice better masturbation habits. Also, cut back on porn. A fleshlight is a great choice to practice the "real deal".
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